Safety Planning
A safety plan is a practical guide to help you stay safer. Having a plan thought out in advance can make a critical difference. Take what applies to your situation.
Know your safe places
Identify at least two safe places you can go if you need to leave quickly. A trusted friend, a family member, or a local shelter. Memorise the address or write it somewhere only you can access.
Important numbers to remember
Know the phone number of the National DV hotline or helpline. If you can, memorise the number of a trusted person who can help. Consider calling from a public phone or a borrowed device.
Pack an emergency bag
If it is safe to do so, prepare a bag with essentials: ID and birth certificates, medication, emergency cash, a phone charger, and a change of clothes for yourself and your children. Keep it somewhere accessible and hidden. If you have a friend or family member who could store it for you, please consider asking them to.
Digital safety
Clear your browser history after using this site. Use private/incognito mode. Log out of any accounts. If possible, use a public computer or a trusted friend's device to seek help.
Tell a trusted person
If you can do so safely, tell at least one trusted person about your situation and your plan. Give them a signal — a code word or phrase — that lets them know you need help.
Know your legal rights
You may be entitled to a protective order, emergency housing, and legal aid. Our resource directory can connect you with free legal advocates in your area who specialise in domestic violence cases.
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